A Strange Day

[Disclaimer – This post is just random babblings]

They say that when you become single after a long time, you need to take time to be single and ‘find’ yourself. When I first read that, I thought it was complete bullshit. I thought it was some fancy-pants/yogi term. But after this year, I think it’s true.

I’ve been single for almost a year, and I’ve loved it. I enjoy doing things by myself, and I’ve learned that I am capable of a lot more than I thought. I’ve put more effort into the friendships that I have, and I’ve been able to spend more time with my family.  I also started writing this blog, I get better grades at university and have taken my health and fitness much more seriously. I think not having my time taken up with a relationship gave me the time and incentive to do these things.

Being single was the best decision that I could have made, and staying single has benefited me immensely. Who knows what 2016 holds, but single or taken, I will hold onto the new me.


  1. I totally understand this! Being single can be tough at times but it’s also a really good chance to see what you can achieve alone 🙂


    • Yay, someone who understands! There are definitely hard days, but growing as a person is so much more important. Thanks for the comment 🙂

      Ellen (rebelavenue)

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