[Disclaimer – This post is just random babblings]
They say that when you become single after a long time, you need to take time to be single and ‘find’ yourself. When I first read that, I thought it was complete bullshit. I thought it was some fancy-pants/yogi term. But after this year, I think it’s true.
I’ve been single for almost a year, and I’ve loved it. I enjoy doing things by myself, and I’ve learned that I am capable of a lot more than I thought. I’ve put more effort into the friendships that I have, and I’ve been able to spend more time with my family. I also started writing this blog, I get better grades at university and have taken my health and fitness much more seriously. I think not having my time taken up with a relationship gave me the time and incentive to do these things.
Being single was the best decision that I could have made, and staying single has benefited me immensely. Who knows what 2016 holds, but single or taken, I will hold onto the new me.